In short, yes, but they can be malleable, and things can change as well as people’s opinions. I get told quite a bit that I seem really quiet and awkward at first, but then when I get to know someone and start talking, I don’t shut up. Anyone who knows me well, knows I talk for England, and it’s a bit of a pain to get me to shut up, to be honest.
When I started my new job a while ago, everyone said I seemed really quiet, didn’t really make much conversation, that I seemed uncomfortable and as if I felt awkward. Obviously I didn’t really feel like I seemed like that but after about a week everyone got to know me more and turns out I’m actually bloody great! Apparently I still look like I want to kill everyone, buuttt I can’t change that; I’ve just got a resting bitch face.
I seem to have a tendency to get over confident, talk very loudly and give off the impression of a massive ego when meeting people I actually need to get along with, especially if I’ve had a drink beforehand (apologies Jack). So sorry if you’ve had to meet me like that, I don’t actually think the world of myself funnily enough.
When meeting people you need to impress, such as potential employers, colleagues or business people, it’s a good idea to act responsibly, put your best foot forward and be professional. I have found, however, that you can’t be overly serious otherwise you’ll just come across as boring and won’t get employed. But when meeting people that the first impression doesn’t overly matter, don’t worry too much about it, just also try not to be too drunk. - Liv x